Have you ever sat up in a dark room thinking what am I doing with my life? Like you the way but still so lost and there goes another day not knowing what to do with your life. Well you are not alone here, there’s lot of people facing the same issue. Here are 7 harsh realizations that can help you find the purpose of your life and guide you towards a real and meaningful purpose.
No One’s Handing You a Ready-Made Purpose
The harsh truth is that no body has gone one magic map or a destiny plan and is waiting out there to hand it to you. You have to experiment, try, fail, mess things up and build yourself up. You’re out of your own and ain’t nobody is coming to save you but YOU.
Pain Really Is Your Best Teacher
With each scare is a map that tells a story and all those rough patches, makeups for the breakups are not pointless but they’re a reminder of lessons learned. It is well said that experience is really the best teacher in order to help you grow both spiritually and emotionally.
Most People Are Looking Out for Themselves
In a flight that’s going through turbulence, flight attendants tell to put oxygen mask on your face first then your co-passenger. This is true everywhere, people inherently look for themselves first than think of other, whether it is friends or family, they might support you but pretty much everyone is focused on themselves first. This might hurt but it pushes you to look upon you and your own path.
People May Love You Fake But Their Hate Is So Real
You will come across multiple people in your life, some will stuck around longer than others, whether it is your friend, family or your partner, no matter. When it is beneficial for them they’ll be loving but a single misunderstanding or misinterpreting and they’ll be your biggest foe. It’s just the human nature.
Staying Comfy Keeps You Stuck
The moment you start rooting to a place that’s when your growth stops. Being in your comfort zone stops you from challenging yourself and discovering what you’re truly capable of. The real excitement and your hidden passion starts to show up when you’re out challenging yourself.
Some of Your Beliefs Are Just Cozy Lies
We hold onto ideas that make everything feel easier, but facing the real truth about life and yourself can break those down. It’s painful dropping the illusions, but it clears the way for a purpose that’s solid and honest.
Your Purpose Isn’t Fixed But It Changes
The thing that was giving your joy does not necessarily mean it will keep giving your joy 5 years down the line. I by no means want to disappoint or discourage you from chasing your dreams. But when you start feeling like you have to start over at any point of your life, it is an ongoing change and doing this keeps the things fresh and live.
